She’s standing in the bathroom, looking at her reflection.
It’s the end of another long, emotionally heavy day. Her brain is buzzing with everything she did, everything she didn’t do, everything she has to face tomorrow. Her jaw aches from clenching. Her shoulders feel like armor. Her chest feels full—like she’s been holding her breath for months.
She steps on the scale even though she promised herself she wouldn’t.
The number stares back at her.
Up. Again.
“I barely ate today,” she thinks. “I’m stressed all the time. I’m exhausted. Why is my body doing this? Why does it feel like the more stressed I get, the more my body clings to weight?”
She pinches the softness at her waist and silently calls it names. Part of her feels betrayed. Another part feels strangely…numb. She knows she can’t keep going like this, but she doesn’t know how to get her body to cooperate.
If you’ve ever felt like stress makes your body “inflate,” retain, or cling to extra weight—no matter how little you eat or how hard you try—you’re not imagining it. Your body actually does respond to stress in ways that can create what I call “emergency weight.”
But this isn’t simply a hormone problem, or a willpower problem, or a moral problem. It’s a nervous-system, subconscious, and energetic pattern. And once you understand it, you can stop blaming yourself and start helping your body feel safe enough to let go.